LEARNING VALUES AND MANNERISM FOR STUDENTS (13 - 18 Year Old - Teens)- Islamic manners for teenagers

 LEARNING VALUES AND MANNERISM FOR STUDENTS (13 - 18 Year Old - Teens)- Islamic manners for teenagers

1. Education is about developing well-rounded individuals who can make positive

contributions to society. Thus, it is a combination of academic success and

learning the moral values so that the learners grow into responsible, ethical, and

empathetic individuals. As a progressive system, schools focuses the effective,

transformative, and lasting education right from the beginning.

2. Curriculum and co & extra – curricular activities are integrated in such a way

that the child learns and practices various aspects of a value being taught. As per

the direction of the CA, another step in this regard is to seamlessly integrate the

teaching of basic moral values and mannerism in everyday school life.

2. Relationship with Almighty

a. Strong faith

b. Being thankful

c. Preparing for and

Offering prayers

d. Making duaa

e. Not losing hope

3. General Manners

a. Bodily functions

1) Shaking Hands

2) Yawning

3) Sneezing

b. Getting along with

others

1) Values

a) Positive attitude and talking manners, emotional intelligence,

b) Sharing and caring

c) Truthfulness

d) Tolerance, Compassion, Gentleness, Forgiveness, Respect

e) Integrity, Honesty, Patience, Open-mindedness, Keeping promises

f) Looking down upon others

g) Treating / interaction with people of other faiths and community

h) Managing self and time

2) Self-respect, Respect for others, Rights and responsibilities as a family

member, student, citizen

3) Use of Kind and polite words

Masoon Duaen

 Drinking milk

 Before sleeping and after waking up

 Climbing up the stairs

 Getting down the stairs

 Entering and leaving the washroom

 Entering and leaving the house

 At the time of rain

 Dua of seeking knowledge

 Dua of Prophet Adam (AS)

 Dua of the last Holy Prophet

 Duaas of the Prophets mentioned in the Holy

Quran

Good Words

Say "Bismillah" before eating or drinking.

Say Alhamdu lillah" after eating or drinking.

Say "Assalamu alaikum" when greeting others.

Say "Jazak Allah" to show thankfulness

Say "Insha'Allah" when promising something.

Say "Astagfirullah" when a mistake is made.

4) Listening patiently

5) Responding in different situations

6) Controlling anger

7) Thinking before speaking

8) Taking Turns

9) Asking for permissions

10)Swearing and use of harsh words

11)Calling names and making fun out of others

12)Manners of laughing and joking

13)Showing respect for others

14)Standing up for yourself and others

15)Patriotism/ Pakistaniat

16)Accepting mistakes

17)Returning favours

18) No backbiting

c. Manners to treat the animals

d. General Manners of out and about

e. Manners of travelling

f. Meeting and Greeting

1) Friends

2) Elders

3) Youngers

4) Strangers

5) Guests

a) Receiving the guests

b) Entertaining the guests

c) Being a guest

d) Visiting sick

g. Saving the environment

1) Reduce, Reuse and Recycle

a) Saving food

b) Saving water

c) Saving paper

d) Avoiding use of plastic

e) Reducing waste

f) Planting trees

g) Cleaning the neighbourhood

4. Manners of dealing in Social Media

a. Use the gadgets with the permission of your parents.

b. Keep the screen time limited. You also to be physically active and play

outdoors.

c. Use kiddle.co for safe browsing.

d. Don’t share your or your family’s personal information online randomly.

e. Don’t interact with strangers on the internet.

f. Practice phone manners.

g. Don’t use abusive language on the social media.

h. Switch off your gadgets at least one hour before going to bed.

i. Always keep your parents informed on what you are doing on social media;

confide in parents if you some stranger tries to befriend you or harass you.

5. How to behave at Home?

a. Duaas for entering and leaving the house

b. General manners of Eating & Drinking

c. Table Manners – The Meals

1) Before meals

2) Sitting Down

3) Dua before eating

4) Eating Manners

5) Dua after eating

6) After Meals

d. Dressing up

1) Clothing & shoes

2) Dua while dressing up

3) Dressing up with dignity & modesty

4) Dressing up as per religious and cultural norms

5) Causal and formal dressing

e. Tidying up

1) Making the bed

2) Cleaning the room(s)/ place/ house

3) Arranging the closet

4) Keeping books organized

5) Playing with and keeping the toys at their place

f. Health & Hygiene

1) Regular Hand Washing

2) Regular Showers and Bath Hygiene

3) Dental and Oral Hygiene

4) Nail Care and Hygiene

5) Hair Care and Head Hygiene

6) Covering Their Mouth While Sneezing or Coughing

7) Using toilets

g. Using washrooms

1) Dua while entering the washroom

2) Not wasting the water

3) Leaving the washroom / bathroom clean

4) Dua while leaving the washroom

h. Sleeping

1) Routine before going to the bed

2) Dua before sleeping

3) Dua at waking up

4) Routine after waking up

i. Help & respect

1) Dealing with siblings

2) Behaviour with parents & grand parents

3) Behaviour with relatives

4) Dealing with elders

5) Behaviour with people working as house help

6) Treating the needy

j. Interaction with people in neighbourhood

1) Interaction with neighbours

2) Interaction with acquaintances

3) Interaction with strangers

6. How to behave at School?

a. Travelling in the school van

b. School gate

c. School premises

d. Classroom

e. Playground

f. Library & Labs

g. Canteen

h. Dealing with domestic staff, other students, friends, teachers and visitors

i. Using school facilities such as water cooler, washrooms

7. How to behave in public

a. Using public property

b. Behaving at public places

c. How to sit and stand in public

d. Giving space / facilitating elderly, sick, people with special needs, children

e. Talking to others

f. Queuing up

g. Holding door for others

h. Leaving the public place

DOS AND DON’TS OF GOOD MANNERS FOR 13 – 18 YEAR OLDS

Good manners are about showing respect and kindness to others!

Dos

1. Do greet others with a smile and a friendly hello.

2. Do listen actively and show interest in conversations.

3. Do use polite language and expressions like "please" and "thank you".

4. Do respect others' opinions and beliefs, even if you disagree.

5. Do offer help or assistance when needed.

6. Do be punctual and respect other people's time.

7. Do use good table manners, like chewing with your mouth closed and not talking

with your mouth full.

8. Do introduce yourself and others when necessary.

9. Do be considerate of others' feelings and emotions.

10. Do apologize sincerely when you've made a mistake.

11. Do show appreciation and gratitude towards others.

12. Do respect people's personal space and privacy.

13. Do use good hygiene practices, like washing your hands regularly.

14. Do be inclusive and welcoming to everyone.

15. Do practice self-control and manage your emotions in public.

16. Hold the door open for the person coming after you.

Cleanliness:

1. Do wash your hands frequently, especially after using the bathroom and before

eating.

2. Do shower or bathe regularly to maintain personal hygiene.

3. Do brush and floss your teeth twice a day.

4. Do wear clean clothes and wash your bedding regularly.

5. Do keep your room tidy and organized.

Environment:

1. Do use reusable bags and water bottles.

2. Do turn off lights, electronics, and taps when not in use.

3. Do use public transport, walk, or bike when possible.

 

4. Do participate in community clean-ups and environmental events.

5. Do reduce your use of single-use plastics.

6. Do plant trees and support reforestation efforts.

7. Do conserve water and reduce food waste.

8. Do support organizations working on environmental issues.

9. Do educate yourself and others about environmental concerns.

Good manners go a long way in building strong relationships and earning

respect from others. Every small action counts, and keeping our surroundings

clean is a big part of being responsible and respectful.

DON’TS

1. Don't use your phone during meals or conversations.

2. Don't interrupt others while they're speaking.

3. Don't use inappropriate language or slang.

4. Don't ignore someone who's speaking to you.

5. Don't make fun of others or mock their beliefs.

6. Don't be late or keep others waiting.

7. Don't neglect to greet or thank someone.

8. Don't burp in public.

9. Don't chew with your mouth open or talk with your mouth full.

10. Don't neglect to respect elders or those in authority.

11. Don't use derogatory language or put others down.

12. Don't make assumptions or jump to conclusions.

13. Don't neglect to apologize when you're wrong.

14. Don't ignore someone who needs help or assistance.

15. Don't be selfish or only think of yourself.

Cleanliness:

1. Don't neglect personal hygiene: Showers, deodorant, and regular toothbrushing

are a must!

2. Don't wear dirty clothes or shoes: Keep your wardrobe fresh and clean.

3. Don't leave trash or dirty dishes for others to clean up: Take responsibility for your

own mess.

4. Don't forget to wash your hands frequently: Especially after using the bathroom

and before eating.

5. Don't share personal items like towels or makeup: Keep your personal items

clean and to yourself.

Environment:

1. Don't litter or throw trash on the ground: Use recycling bins and keep public

spaces clean.

2. Don't waste water or energy: Turn off lights and taps when not in use.

3. Don't use single-use plastics like straws or bags: Opt for reusable alternatives

instead.

4. Don't ignore recycling guidelines: Make sure to sort your trash correctly.

5. Don't pollute the air